Sex Moves His Ex Didn't Do While reading through the traditional sex tip list in this month's Cosmo I cam across a couple different themes in what these guy's exes didn't do in bed. Girly Moves He Craves 6. He wants to be the little spoon. 9. Play with his hair during sex. 17. Spank him. 20. Use toys. 33. Take control and dominate him. 64. Denis, 24 says that his ex used to run to the bathroom post-sex, "I would have preferred she let me stay inside her for a few minutes just to feel closer to her." I have learned this is called potatoing. Come On, I'm A Guy! 14. Play with his jewels, Drew 30 says they're "like the clitoris for guys." Really? 16. Swallow. 37. Compliment his member. 40. Try anal sex. Just try it. Just try. Why won't you just try it?! 49. Give him head on your knees. 61. Ritch, 31 only likes when girls sit up straight during women on top, "My ex would bend over so our faces were close when she was in this position and I couldn't see her breasts or anything else. It kind of make it pointless." Pointless, really?